Birthdays and Gifts

I opened my ebay account username plumping.pinksoda and I was looking for a birthday gift to my wife. I thought it was so easy to find a gift for her but I was wrong. Looking for a perfect gift is so daunting because I wanted it to be special. I imagined her smile when she looks at it and when  she opens it. The thing that makes her happy. I truly know that she is a simple girl with a simple needs, but picking a simple gift isn't that simple anymore. There are a lot a choices and you want to pick the gift that makes her smile.

Why do we always wait for the last day to get something for our loved ones? Is it because we are too busy to care? But we care enough to because when the special day comes, we scramble to find the nicest gift. We go out of our busy life just to go to the department store on the last minute. Only to find out that the gift we gave is not the one they want. 

One year of not Writing Anything

It has been more than a year since I last wrote on this blog. How can I not write anything for one year? For one, life has been busy for me. Wait.. I think I am making excuses for not writing. Hahaha. Saying I am busy is the oldest excuse a person can say. I really hate it when people say they are busy, it just means for me that I don't have time for you or I don't effing care about you. Pardon my language but I think I am guilty too 'coz I say that a lot of time to people too. LOL...

BTW, I remember that this blog got me in trouble with my work before. It was a lesson learned but I'm glad someone is reading this from another part of the planet. It just made my blog more intriguing I guess.

I got to go back to watching Califonication. That show got me hooked on blogging again. I never thought that writing on a blog could buy you a Porsche. I guess that only happens in Hollywood.

As my favourite Starcraft2 commentator, Huskystarcraft, would say... I'll see you guys... Next time.

c",) - jeumerc

Inspiration and Happiness

A lot of things has transpired this past few years since the last time I wrote. Yes I am still married with my dream girl and we are still waiting for our angel to come. I also found a new group called "Himig Pinoy" choir founded by our friend Fr. Capt. John Joel Vergara. I have made a lot of friends from Couples for Christ and formed a prayer group.

Morning is finally living here with me. I took her to places that I have been and going on trips with friends. We joined "Couples for Christ Australia" ,and "Himig Pinoy" choir. She's found work and doing well with it. And I think we are happy to be here in Melbourne and doing things together.

Life isn't always a bed of roses here in Australia. We also had our ups and downs, struggles, obstacles and financial obligations. Even though we struggle, we still find happiness and find a silver lining to all of this. We always try to resolve things together and we have a lot of support groups (Filipinos) to help us.

Life in the First World

I have been living in a third world country all my life. Since I was born, I was used to living in an inconvenient way compared to the developed countries. I was used to sleeping on a hard mat and eating rice everyday. Our family was fortunate enough to be able to afford a comfortable life by engaging in retail and wholesale business which didn't go on to the next generation.

It has been my dream to go to a developed country ever since I graduated. Live in a safe, clean and livable environment. I was very lucky enough to land a permanent visa in one of those developed countries called Australia.

It's been a year since I lived here and so far so good. First, I lived with my cousin for ten months and when it was time to live with myself I rented a room near my work. Then, I immediately bought myself a house and car with the help of my nephew, who is a broker. I was living happily with my new home which I filled with nice appliances, courtesy of the First Home Owner's Grant Boost.

I also met new Filipino friends about my age. I was always happy to see them and speak our native tongue. I just met them recently and since then I was glad I could express myself again. We played basketball every Saturday and sometimes have drinking nights. I was glad that I found them because they have become my pillars that hold my insanity.

I am waiting for my wife now. She will come soon to live with me. I will have to teach her the ways that I have learned here. I will always be thankful to the people who has taught me the ways of this great country and it is time for me to do the same to my wife. She will have to endure what I have endured and learn what I learned ( I am speaking about driving here!). I am sure she will have a great time living here with me.

Cavaliers Lost, A King Dethroned

Isn't it funny that the Cleveland Cavaliers won the first two match by lopsided and sweeping games only to lose on the conference finals? Lol!

I would be heart broken if I were Le Bron. If I were him I would cry and if I were him I would blame nobody but myself.

Poor Cavs, the favorite of many people because of the greatness of Le Bron. He fell short on challeging the Lakers for the Finals. You know what Le Bron does not have that Kobe and Jordan has? They have Phil Jackson. Yes, a great coach. A coach who can adjust his players to counter the attack of the opposing team. A coach who can make a team play rather than relying on one man to do his job.

Comparing him to Jordan has not done very well with James. Yes they share the same famous 23, but still Jordan has a greater 23 than him. What I mean is he can do successive championship rings that no one can match. Kobe isn't bad either. Thanks to their pimp Phil Jackson.

Le Bron your time is up, get to work and get those rings. You may still have a lot in you, you may be young, so please grow up. You need to control your energy and start learning jump shots and fade away jumpers.

Dunks, drives and passes are effective but those fade away jumpers are killers. They are simple but hard to defend. I just love it when Jordan or Kobe does it-graceful, simple and effective. When you hear the 'SWOOSSH!!!', it is music to the ears. The way Le Bron does it is "BANG!!!" -so destructive, chaotic and complicated.

Here Comes the Train

Finally the train arrived!

It was hard for me to wait for the cash train to arrive. It took me almost a month of doing virtually nothing everyday and just waiting for it to arrive. Now that it's here, I finally became busy and relieved.

The cash train I am referring to is my job, I have been jobless for almost a month last April. Everyday I prayed that one day someone will give me a job or I would get my job back. That was a really depressing time for me, but I survived.

Being out of job made me realize that life sometimes really is down. It is like a wheel constantly spinning. Sometimes you are lucky and sometimes you are not. Sometimes you are doing fine then sometimes it is not. Whatever the case maybe, I learned that even you are down in the darkest days of your life, there will always come a time that the sun will shine. God has given us rain in order for things to be alive but he does not allow it to rain everyday. The light will eventually come just as morning brings us a new hope.

Morning Star

I always believe in myself,
Sometimes I believe too much.
I know I needed help,
someone I could keep in touch.

I feel alone in this new world I'm now
struggling to fit in; myself, I could not express .
like a sparrow in a group of crows,
I am constantly sad and helpless.

I keep telling myself I will survive,
I will live on, I will not hide.
For I am strong as long as you are,
be strong for me, my Morning star

I will wait for you to come,
praying, hoping and believing
Arriving after the setting of the sun.
I will be faithful to you, my everything.

Oh morning star, I know you are waiting for me
you wake me up and shine on my dark room
In order for me to see
that you will always come after the gloom.

A Glimmer of Hope

I am optimistic that things will be alright, though I don't feel it right now. All I have right now is HOPE.

Hope that one day my wife and I will be together again here in Australia. Hope that her visa will be approve. Hope that happens soon.

Hope that I could have a more stable job. Hope that one day things won't be slow. Hope that I could be happier.

People today needs hope. It's all they have to have to reach their dreams. Things sometimes does not turn out the way we hoped for. We must always be strong for trials are there to test us and make us stronger.

Loneliness sometimes gets to me. I cry every night when I am alone. The tears running down my cheeks are not tears of pain nor joy. It is a tear of hope. I cry so God may hear my prayers more because I know He might be busy listening to billions of prayers.

I write this blog with because I won't lose hope. I am positive.

Australia Outdoor Living

I have been so busy this past few months. After my wedding I just want to work immediately-and play. I have been enjoying some of my weekends outdoors and it was really a new experience for me.

First, we went at Portland. There was windmills there and the scenery was just great. I saw my first wild kangaroos at the bushes and the blowholes are really great sight to see. It was a relaxing three day affair. We also went fishing(or squidding) and I did not catch anything-I guess it was one of those nights.

Then I went to Wilson's Prom. It was really a nice place to be and the beach was purrrfect. I also saw my first wombat there. Too bad it was burned lately due to bush fires. It was really a very nice environment.

Lastly we went to Grampians. We went hiking at the Pinnacle, it was a hard hike up the rocky mountains but we got to the peak. The view was exhilarating and the hike was really worth it. Camping and hiking are now my favorite outdoor activity now. I am looking forward to my next trip.

Weddings are forever

I love wedding especially if it's my own wedding. I am happy that my wedding was over and also happy that it went well.

13 December 2008, a very special day and a milestone in my life. As a first time husband to my first time wife, I vowed in front of 350 guests inside God's house that I would always love my wife for richer and forr poorer until death do us part.

I am really happy during my wedding in general. I think we had a grand wedding complete with entourage and nice reception. God knows how happy I am that I found a wife that I could cherish for the rest of my life. I can't wait to have my own family.

I will be back to Australia and start to work hard for the arrival of my wife. I will pave the way for our future and work hard to provide for her needs.

See You Later Australia- Hello Philippines

I will be coming home for my wedding. I am excited at the same time scared of this new stage in my life. I have thought of this since I was young and now its definitely coming into life. I will lose my bachelor's life and I am excited about this new life call Marriage.

I dread every minute without her. I long for her like a child to her mother. I need her warmth and encouragement. I miss being with her while I am away working here in Australia.

All my life, I never loved anyone more than my fiancee. She is my beacon of hope. Without her, I have no strength. She has become my foundation, holding my wits together so I could keep myself in one piece. She protects me from anything that may harm me or our relationship. I knew, from the first time I saw her, in her eyes, I could see my unborn children. I really hope it turns a lot like their mother.

I always loved her. She may be like most girls, pretty, charming and nice. But, the best thing I like about her was she was determined, never gives up, strong willed, and smart. She belongs to me and she will become the pillar of my future empire. She will run along side me planning and building. She will soon be the most powerful girl, I could always tell it was inside her.

There will always be someone for everyone. I found my someone 7 years ago. I had doubts that we may never last but all that is now past. I look forward now for my future with her. I am really excited to live life along side her.

My Little Laid Back Aussie Life

Its been over 2 months now since I arrive here in Australia. I love living and working here. Everything is great as of now. And I hope things will get better and better as I explore this new world called O.Z.

I celebrated my birthday here. It was nice because my fellow mates in my office bought me a cake and we had a little chit chat during the afternoon break. It was definitely different here because where I came from its usually the birthday boy who treats everybody in the office. I never lost that tradition, I treated my relatives to dinner that night.


I love fishing. Its really fun! My niece took me fishing at Barwon Heads and it was nice. I love the serenity of the bay while the fishes nibble on my bait. I caught a Ling fish and it was a great sight. My mates were also happy for my first fish. It was really beginners luck. The most thing I love about fishing was the beer inside the cooler. It was so manly and refreshing. I would do it again and again. I think I found my calling.


I will be back to the Philippines for my wedding. I am really excited for my wedding. I will take my wife in Australia and live happily here and also my kids to be. I am really excited about my future here. I wish all my friends and family could experience this. I am having the best times of my life.

Wedding of The Year

I am definitely getting married this December 13, 2008. I've been waiting for this to come and of course have my own family to take care. It was more than a year since I proposed to her and it will now take action after careful planning.

I really am happy to do this. I prepared for this for so long and now that I have saved for the wedding, everything is good to go.

Morning is doing all the preparations and I am supporting her while she's doing all the planning. The people around us will be happy for this event. It has been 7 years of strong relationship that led us to go to the next level.

I will raise my new family here in Australia. I am confident that my family will grow up nicely and comfortably. I thank thee Australia for making dreams come true.

Working Man in Australia

That is right, I am now working in Australia. I did not imagine doing this when I graduated. I really cannot believe that I am now living my dreams. I am happy in my work place and people here are so friendly. I do miss the Philippine style of working - underpaid and overworked. In here it is the opposite.

I really like to help some of my peeps in our country. I want to help in my own way. I will start of course with my loved ones then when I have no one to help, nah!! There will always be someone looking for help.

I guess dreams do come true if you work for it. May Luck be with you!!!!

Australian-Filipino Life

I will start work on Monday!

After three weeks of hanging around and touring Victoria, Australia, I will have the chance to work as an Australian. It took quite a while but the wait is worth it. The pay is good and I already things in mind to buy on my salary.

Filipinos here are so friendly. Hospitality has always been in their blood. I have been in many Filipino houses and everything is pinoy like TFC. Filipinos love for basketball is also present in Australia. Filipino players here are great.

I got my Learner License and my Tax File number and my Medicare. I am living like an Australian now.

Dreams do get real here in Australia. I love it here and if I could help Filipinos to come here and live their dreams I would always recommend Australia. Things in Australia are so efficient, fair and very strict. I wish Philippines will be as livable as Melbourne but then again I think there is a balance in this world.

Welcome to Australia

I arrived in Australia not knowing what is in store for me. I researched the kind of lifestyle of the Aussies but I think experience is still the best teacher. My goal is to be rich and provide for my future family.

I was not lonely in Australia because my cousins were here to take care of me. I was fortunate to have them and I also gained friends instantly.

I was in love with Australia ever since. We had an instant connection the moment we met for the first time. We never had dull moments and we always have something to do. Boredom was not an issue with us and being laid back is a passion. Australia has been nice to me and I promise to take care of the trust it gave me for the rest of my life.

I can't wait to petition my fiancee back in the Philippines. I miss her so much but sacrifices has to be made in order for goals to be met. I am strong and I know we will see be forever again very soon.

I love you Australia, thank you for the hospitality!

Goodbye DLS Philippines

Today was my clearance day for Davis Langdon and Seah Philippines Inc (DLSPI). The last day in my office was quite sad. I will truly miss all the people who have helped me grow to be a good quantity surveyor. I found a family here in my work place, they have been my support during my stint here in DLSPI.

I already said goodbyes to my friends and colleagues. I am happy to hear that they will also miss me but I will miss them more. I will be leaving them today but their memories will stay with me forever.

Another Milestone in my life has just ended. I look forward to the new challenges Australia has to offer. I am always GAME to face life's trials and PUMPED up to face challenges. I am ready to stand up in every FAILURE and be the MAN that this world requires. I can never ACCCEPT failure because I am AFRAID to lose. AUSTRALIA get ready for me, I am coming to conquer my dreams.

Australian VISA: Granted

There was utter silence when the news arrived last Thursday. Ellen Pantaleon has called me to tell me the news that my Class BN Subclass 136 Skilled Independent Visa has been approved. I was so happy to hear it. I was speechless at first and it was a great moment. Another successful milestone in my journey called life.

The next day I gave a letter of resignation to my boss. He was shocked of course, but he wanted me to be in Davis Langdon Australia. He was a great boss and I am sure I will miss him. He was so professional and cool when problems arise. He laughs at problems and during meetings everyone listens to his advise.

I went to Church with Morning yesterday and the Homily really suits what I feel. I got what I prayed for but of course it is only the start of a new life in Australia. It will be an endless cycle of wanting to have more and being burdened with all the struggles in life. I know God will only be the one who will give me rest. I hope my life and my journey will be a fruitful one.

Aussie's Here I come

I can already feel the Australian Air. MMMM!!!!

I went to Respall today to submit my birth certificate. It is the only lacking document I need. I would like to thank Marifel of NSO's director's office for her assistance. Dreams are beginning to be real now.

I would like to share this to anyone. If you have a dream, don't waste your time Sleeping. Wake up and work your Ass for it. Failure may come but consider it as part of the challenge. We all know that the World likes winners but the losers that did not gave up are the greatest winners of all time.

Countdown to Migration

Two months from now I may not be around the Philippines. I am in the process of securing my visa to go to Australia. Thanks to my migration agent Mr. Respall.

I will be going to venture to a new world. A world where I will be the new guy. I need to fit in to a society which is very different in terms of race and culture. I have fear of not belonging but I know I won't be left out.

I will live with my cousins in West Victoria. They already have three rooms available for me. The rooms belonged to my second cousins who have grown up.

I am so excited on my migration because I have prepared for it two years now. I spent a lot to be there and waited so many months. My fiancee also is excited about going there. We will live a new life there and will try to make our new world almost perfect.

I have so many plans and so many goals when I go there.

1. Save for our nice wedding
2. Save for our new family business
3. Be financially free.
4. Take care of our obligations in the Philippines.

This plans will have a deadline of 5 years from the time I land in Aussie soil.